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At some point of time,you miss the people who had very special and close place in your life .Some people who use to be so good friends, roommates, colleagues, classmates, and many others.But now you are connected to them just virtually,without even saying a 'Hi/Hello' for years. Those people are just present with a green dot on your chat list of messengers. At first a little chit chat conversation will be there but slowly slowly this too vanishes. Now, the scene is like, both of you are seeing each other's green signal of availability but no one takes an effort to initiate a conversation.Connected through social media keeps you updated about the people. For some life events you convey wishes in the form of comments. The long phone calls, gossiping hours, chill outs all are things of the past.
One of the reason for creating this type of situation is I guess different cities. Once you move to a different place, the chances of meetings, and communications become less, lesser, and then least down the time lane.Everyone is so engrossed with the lives and routines that hardly is there any neccesity, or in some cases the feeling to make an effort to communicate.Busy life, changed priorities, new surroundings, new people, new you...everything falls in proper place to make this distance justified.Obviously how long will you hold on to virtual world around you, you need some real people to feel alive and happening.
Then someday you get a phone call or say any online ping from an old chapter of your life, which makes you to recall all the memories with that person. Both relive those memory lanes and sighs 'ah what a life it was..everything is so changed now' . After the phone call ends, or you become offline, both of you get busy with your current lives with a promise to stay in touch. PS: promises are meant to be broken !!
Its not like I am complaining about myself or anyone else.This thought took shape randomly while watching the online people in gtalk. Decided to give some words to it, getting a new post for my blog :)
One of the reason for creating this type of situation is I guess different cities. Once you move to a different place, the chances of meetings, and communications become less, lesser, and then least down the time lane.Everyone is so engrossed with the lives and routines that hardly is there any neccesity, or in some cases the feeling to make an effort to communicate.Busy life, changed priorities, new surroundings, new people, new you...everything falls in proper place to make this distance justified.Obviously how long will you hold on to virtual world around you, you need some real people to feel alive and happening.
Then someday you get a phone call or say any online ping from an old chapter of your life, which makes you to recall all the memories with that person. Both relive those memory lanes and sighs 'ah what a life it was..everything is so changed now' . After the phone call ends, or you become offline, both of you get busy with your current lives with a promise to stay in touch. PS: promises are meant to be broken !!
Its not like I am complaining about myself or anyone else.This thought took shape randomly while watching the online people in gtalk. Decided to give some words to it, getting a new post for my blog :)
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