Zindagi Everyday

Thursday, March 27, 2014

Smiles n Smiles !!

I just couldn't stop smiling at my hubby's ( referring as 'S') act of wisdom.

Actually on the weekend S got a severe back pain due to some cleaning stuff at home. It was so painful that he wasn't able to stand straight. We had to visit Physiotherapist.
After taking some exercises and massages from physio, S was in a better state.

I was of the opinion that he should take an off from office to seek the continuous sittings from physio. He didn't approve me of it. So in the morning what he worked out as an excellent way to keep me away from nagging for a leave was...........switch off my alarm, and left quietly to office without letting me get up.

Obviously i was late in the morning, got up at 8:30 am, and to my surprise he wasn't home. As soon as i woke up started thinking what all went in process ....Thinking of his attempts, couldn't stop smiling....Such a punctual and dedicated employee S is ;)

Friday, March 21, 2014

Naps

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Its getting so hard to steal some time and switch on the laptop. Every time i think Pari is sleeping, may be i can write something....just 5 0r 10 minutes later..guess what ....i hear her voice, look at her and she is full awake sitting on the bed smiling, may be thinking that " aha now mom is going to get me to the laptop". Its so hard to make her sleep for straight one or more hours at a time.

Be it morning, noon, night, whichever time i choose, the same situation...Kids these days do not sleep much i guess. Many a times it happens, that in the process of making her sleep, i slept myself and she was loud awake playing with my mobile, yeah of course decent enough not to break herself or anything else :P

Rey and Pari

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Siblings :

Fun Time :

Thursday, March 20, 2014

Holi 2014

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Holi- the festival of colours. Pari and her brother(cousin, call him as Rey) had their first holi together. While Rey was happy to allow us putting gulal on him, Pari was scared..She just hid in me getting frighten of the colourful gulals and our faces.
After having this session of little bit gulal, exchanging wishes, seeking blessings, we headed to the roof and planned to make both the kids bath there. Luckily the weather was good, so they enjoyed a lot. Pari loves to be in water, once she slips in her bath tub, its almost impossible to take her out.. When we took her out of the water, she was all in tears and screams...poor sight but had to do to save her from getting sick.
After having a hard time at getting her dressed, the result was wonderful..Both the kids were dressed in ethnic wears..Lovely kids

Its just a bad DAY

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Well, this sounds a great advice. Actually I am more of a sensitive, introvert and a person of few words.
Life as all know is a roller coaster ride. So obviously everything will not go smoothly and repeatedly the same way. Many times this ride gets tougher, and many times its as smooth as silk. Just because of my sensitivity, and more thinking, really " a bad day makes me feel like i have a bad life". So many drama gets cooked up in my head along with a whole scenario including emotions, anger, frustration, which make the day and drama more worse.
Instead of controlling, and making the situation light, it gets more worse in my head, and so in real life too. Should figure out some deviations to get away from thoughts and feelings which makes it more harder to feel normal.

Friday, March 14, 2014

Nature's Calls

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Pari is now 1.5 years only, but she is so good at understanding her nature's calls. If she had an urge to pee or potty, wherever she is, will come to me indicating that she needs to go. Her signals include holding her pajamas which means need to pee. For that too she understands that she should go to bathroom ,as i always use to take her there while training her.

For potty too, she comes and indicate it. One good and relieved act of hers is, today she did potty on commode without any crying, or drama. She was so comfortable to do. ( I had tried earlier too with her but no success, she didn't cooperate) Hopefully its the starting of her becoming a potty princess :)

PS : accidents do happen at times ;)

Thursday, March 13, 2014

Mumma See !

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From past one months I was trying to make Pari recognize her eyes and teeth, as she was already able to recognize "Nose" . When she didn't pick it up, i thought may be i am pushing her much, she may yet not be ready for it. So i prompted her occasionally rather than continuously.

Today Pari showed a new advancement.To my surprise she herself started pointing her eyes, nose, teeth , and hands...At first i took her gestures as if she want something.......but no she was expecting me to speak on her gestures :)

Once finished gesturing successfully, she chirps and claps so victoriously !!

Feeling great seeing my baby learning and enjoying....finally my efforts got ouput :D

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

Good morning Mom

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Always a smiling and fresh morning Pari have..Just love her way to get up in the morning. No crying, no tears...only smiles..planting kiss on mom's cheek and blabbering "poppa".

Keys

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Kids learn so fast. Their minds are so sharp and capable of grasping each and every activity around them.

Today she tried to put the lock on.Its a normal thing child learn, but look at her target..the key is exactly in the key hole, and she was desperate to hang the key at its place..just a little height would have done her job successfully. She has learnt this just by watching her dadu (grandfather) putting the lock...She leves whole family completely surprised with her developing skills..TOUCHWOOD..

Apart from this Pari recognises the car,scooter, and the house keys...If car keys are in her hands then definitely she is going to open the lock with the remote keys. You dare to deny the keys and watch out for the high end drama full of tears ....aw that really hurt and we all give up to her demand..

Keepon learning sweetheart...Loads of luv baby...muahh..god bless you

Innocence

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Every time i click her she has different colours of innocence

Mumma I want to sit here

Yieee...i got here

Introduction of my Pari

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Pari

Why i want to write a blog..a question to myself as i do not update it for ages. Its so lazy of me to write at times knowing the fact that yeah i am so bad at writing. So th fact is the mom side at times overpower the lazy me to scribble something about my angel ( i am going to refer her here as "PARI" ).

The mom in me wants to write and memorise the activities, routines, feelings, pictures, videos , the precious moments which my pari is giving me to hold on. Actually i want to gift this blog to her once she reaches her teenage, or may be some other time ....as right now i dont knw at what age she will be interested to read it...hopeful tht she will read it someday.

To begin with let me introduce my angel. She is right now 1.5 years old healthy and beautiful baby. I named her as PARI. She is such a darling child, I am saying it not because she is my kid and i just find her superior to every kid on earth....nah nothing like that.

I am saying her darling coz of her brain power, her matured ways to do things, and her inclination towards Feminity ( WIKIPEDIA says : Femininity (also called feminity,womanliness or womanhood) is a set of attributes, behaviors, and roles generally associated with girls and women. Gentleness, empathy, sensitivity, caring, sweetness, compassion, tolerance, nurturance, deference, and succorance are traits that have traditionally been cited as feminine. )

Watching her attitude, behaviour, companionship with fellow age kids all is so feminine as compared to her cousin brother of the same age. When I think of myself I was never so feminine in my ways and myself. the love she has for dressing, makeup , putting on dupattas I swear i have not yet seen such kid in my vicinity earlier. or may be I should say its a new generation ahead, smart in its own ways ;)

whatever is told to her she understands it so well, though she has not started speaking full fledgly but she understands the name of each and everything around her...not even things but also understands the actions to do any activity or task. Till now, I haven't faced any situation where I had to scold her to stop her from doing anything.

It sounds I am going so ga-ga over my kido.....I guess mom's are like that ;)

More to come.....
Luv u my Pari !!