My journey of being a Stay At Home Mom (SAHM) , sharing experiences with parenting, family, experiences, and some Blogger learning.

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Wednesday, April 22, 2015

Nowadays, have got special affinity to kitchen. Love to cook food. Few days back made Matar Paneer & Boondi Raita following the recipe from my favourite website vegrecipesofindia.com It was a big big hit, all cleaned up with no left overs. Compliments pouring from all the in laws and most importantly husband dear. He always prefers perfection when it comes to food, so its like a big achievement for me to hear 'wow' from him. Till now his best compliment is 'you make food just like mom, i cannot differentiate if u made it or mom' .....hmm half of the target to stomach achieved,no more mumma food cravings for him now :)
During navratris, I did prepare sabudana khichdi , recipe taken from the website mentioned, and it was also a great thumbsup from hubby and me too :) I had made so good khichdi both in taste and texture for the first time in my short kitchen journey. Pics are not that great as took them in a jiffy
Now here comes the pics of both the trials !!
Matar Paneer !!

Sabudana Khichdi !!
These days I am getting a strong affinity towards Cake baking and decorating.All those beautiful cakes allures and mesmerise me so much, and no doubt I am a big cake lover. So finally I have decided to give it a try. Have contacted one of the baking classes and now just waiting for the new batch to start !!
At the same time I am so attracted towards photography too. At times I do get credit for my photography, as well as my interest towards it is forcing me to try it out for once atleast. Just waiting for right gear to switch on. This hobby of mine is going to dig hubby's pocket a big blow :P
images courtesy : google images



I know I am thinking so much of dreamy things which even I am not sure I would be able to hang on. Anyways, if I try it or not atleast I can write it ;)


Kido is done with the playgroup, and now has started with the pre-nursery in a new school. The reason for changing the school is not by choice but due to the closure of the franchise of the school. Her teacher suggested us this new school where her daughter was also studying. She is so damn satisfied with the school efforts and child growth that I had no further doubts when I saw her daughter. So from here, the new school for kido came into picture.

After our Mumbai trip, we started the school for kido. She is admission-ed to pre- nursery as she already have the playgroup background. Thanks to my decision of sending her to play group, in the new school she didn't face a single moment of dullness or sadness. She gets ready in the morning with not much of fuss, enjoys her bath, let me get her dressed up , picks her lunchbox (she says it as 'tifin') and water bottle, wears her school bag and ask me to go saying 'time ho gaya' . Her grandparents mentions that she is just like her father, always neat and tidy and ready to go on time just like S use to do. She has the shadow of his father's personality :)

Kido never cried in the school. Also a very regular at informing the maids for her bathroom breaks. She is a quick learner as I already said, so has learnt the new rhymes quickly when taught in the school. She finishes her lunch with no tantrums.
There is improvement on my part too. Now I have started to pick and drop her to school in our car. Finally my driving lessons are getting useful in practice. In the morning when I drop her at school, she waves goodbye with all smile saying 'time aa jaun' meaning I will come on time :)
She has learnt to wish good morning and good afternoon to the teachers and the staff in the school. Her good morning sounds so crystal clear now. In the afternoon, when pick her up, she is all in smiles again running to me with her open arms. That is a moment which I love the most. Kido is such a darling.
Nowadays she has learnt counting, alphabets, rhymes, and coloring. And above all she loves to act and dance. Her teacher also told me that she enacts the rhymes so well. So finally I have also converted into 'Rhyme sunao beta' type of mumma :P can't help it out,typical motherhood symptom

Little wonders going around my world everyday !!

Tuesday, April 21, 2015

This post is about my bestie for whom life is getting really unfair. How many times can a person face the heart breaks? With every heart break he/she becomes overcautious to people and love. It becomes really difficult for that person to trust and let someone enter into the territory which was once left ruined and devastated. If someone knowing about the past still dare to enter the broken territory, then they should be more generous and cautious about the weak points. Its the sole responsibility of the new entrant to take care of the broken heart, and if the entrant is in the view of following the footsteps of the past one, then the entrant has no right to mend and then again devastate the broken one. 
But people appear to first enter with expressing the feelings,once the broken one begins to trust it, the entrant try the compatibility with the broken, and when not match up tries to flee with no proper reasoning....presenting so lame excuses which are the result of the gossips heard, all influenced by other's opinions. Such a crap entrant, having no brain and stand of her/him self. Such a waste of the precious emotions of the broken heart who again dared to love and trust. Would this broken heart ever heal, can ever let anyone in, would ever feel the same emotions without doubting the commitment ?? God knows, at this moment its just the almighty I trust who can have miracles for my bestie.
These song lines feels so true :

Naa visaal hoya kadi na judai hoi
Ishq de qaidi ki naa rihaai hoi

meaning:A union has never happaned nor the separation,Prisioner of love never has the release

Thursday, April 9, 2015

After visiting Shirdi, next day we planned a little bit of Mumbai sightseeing as kido also got well, thus thought of making the full utilization of the limited time we had in our hands. For the sightseeing we hired a INNOVA cab which charged us 3000 Rupees for the whole 12 hours. We couldn't use the full 12 hours, but then also it was worth it as the comfort, and driver both were great.

Beginning the Mumbai Darshan, we boarded the cab from Mira Road, and then decided to visit Juhu beach first. This was the first visit of my families to Mumbai excluding me. The juhu beach contrary to my expectations, was clean, with people jogging, enjoying the morning there. The water is as usual dirty, but the shore is clean. Family enjoyed the beach as it was their first experience to sea beach. We proceeded towards the Pavbhaji shops of the Juhu beach.Enjoyed the pavbhaji , and it was simply superb. After long time my taste buds got satisfied with the real Mumbai pavbhaji taste. On the eve of Good Friday, a beautiful sand art of Lord Jesus was made at the beach.
Sand art of Lord Jesus at Juhu beach
After Juhu, we headed towards Bandra. Lucky for us that being a weekend there was not much crowd and traffic on the roads. But yeah heat is always scorching in Mumbai. We reached Bandstand, Bandra. On the way was Shahrukh Khan's house 'Mannat'. You can see people clicking pics outside of the bungalow gate. Really its a huge bungalow !!
We reached the Bandstand at Bandra. It is just near the hotel TAJ, and the Bandra Fort. There is a well maintained garden known as 'Lands & Garden' where you can obviously see so many couples chitchatting. Yeah that's the most famous place for couples in Mumbai ...the 'BAND STAND'.
This fort is attached with the Bandra Fort. Though we didn't climbed up to visit the fort, but one can visit it too. Right from the Bandra Fort premise, the Bandra Worli Sea link is visible so clearly and so close.

The Bandra-Worli Sea Link, Mumbai

Lands & Garden, Bandstand Mumbai
Bandra Fort, near TAJ Hotel

BandStand
After BandStand, we visited SiddhiVinayak temple @ Dadar taking the Sea Link route, and it is really awesome.Kido seeing all the water around started saying 'Mumma Goa', the water reminded her of Goa both at Juhu and Bandstand.
 Due to the Lunar eclipse, not much of crowd was there, and we can get the darshan of ganpati within few minutes. Then we headed towards the MahaLaxmi Temple. It is a bit interior from the main road, just near the sea. Same here, not much crowded, no offerings to the goddess due to eclipse, so we finished our darshan within minutes. Visited Haji Ali on the way.
This was our last sightseeing spot. As per our train bookings, we reached to Lokmanya Tilak Terminus (LTT) station, and dropped the rest of the family members there. Then headed to Mumbai Central (BCT) railway station to board the train.

Our Mumbai- Shirdi trip ended here. Though tired but everyone enjoyed the sightseeing.All felt good in Mumbai. Our trip successfully ended with everyone contended and smiling.

Wednesday, April 8, 2015

The last week we had an awesome trip to Shirdi, and enjoyed the partial Mumbai darshan. I am saying partial because due to the time constraint we couldn't visit many tourist spots in Mumbai.

We started our trip to shirdi first.To reach from Mumbai to Shirdi, we booked the AC  sleeper bus via  www.redbus.in This is my first experience of visiting Shirdi in bus, in all other times I have always booked a cab. Here, the bus we got was of ShreeNath Travels as Neeta Volvo tickets were not available .It was great in terms of comfort and seating, but everything has the plus and minus, so here also some exists. Actually the redbus people didn't share the contact number of the bus driver, neither they had correct information about the pickup point for us. We had to board the bus from Mira Road Mumbai, and the pickup points mentioned to us over the phone were not accurate. Important to mention, we had to keep calling the customer care of Redbus to get the pickup details, and these people kept on changing the pickup points once we reached their mentioned point. Our bus boarding time was at 9.00 pm but taking worst case scenario we started looking for pickup point at 7.30 pm onwards which proved helpful to us and buyed us time to get this mess sorted off. The customer care was not ready to share the travel agency details even, on my husband's sternness they finally spill the beans. We took the auto, and searched for the venue. At last we reached there, the pick up point 'Thunga Hospital, Mira Bhayandar Road'. And the travel agency there has a small box like shop, he was not even aware of our bookings mentioning that the details of  bookings done online are not shared with them. Gross !!!
Anyways, if you need to board the bus from Mira Bhayandar Road, then do search for correct pickup point. I picked up the visiting card of that traveller before boarding the bus, in case need the details please feel free to use the shared one.
PS: all details are based on the visiting card of the traveller.No claim of accuracy guaranteed.

Shree Nath Travels
Address: Shop No-4, Holy Complex, Opposite Dominos Pizza, Near Raymond's Showroom, Mira Bhayandar Road, Mira Road East, Thane, Maharashtra 401107

Contact Person: Mr. Sohan Singh Kitawat
Contact Number: Tel: 022-28119868
                             Mob No: 9029449772
                                          : 9324550015
Finally we boarded the bus which was already 15 minutes late. Looking the seats and working AC, we felt relieved. All were so tried that didnt realise when we slept, woked up at our destination...the last stop...'SHIRDI'
On reaching shirdi, the weather was pretty cool. You wil find many autowallas who can drop you to the temple, or in case if you want to get refreshed and take bath, the rooms on hourly basis are also available. We took the second option  and booked one room to get ready. It was comfortable and also reasonable (cheap) option. We didn't need to book the hotel room and pay extra bucks for just 1-2 hours. After getting ready, around 6 am we headed towards the temple, the same autowalla- i guess he must be the agent of that hotel, walked us to the temple which was real near by at 10 minutes walkable distance. There the hotel person has their own shop for prasad and offered lockers for the customers to put their belongings, shoes etc safely. From this shop we bought the prasad ( which is really costly, 500 bucks for one set) the other guy from the shop showed us the way to the entrance of the temple, and followed us to the premise without charging anything. I must say the costly prasad was worth it as our belongings, mobile phones, shoes, everything was intact and safe on receiving.

Lucky for us that we started early morning, there was not a single queue on the main entrance, and we had like a cake walk reached the inner premise, and here also it was not a much crowded one, no push and pull, along with a pleasant and cool weather. Kido slept on his father's shoulder, so no tantrums also. Remebering my earlier visits, even in the early mornings we had to face a huge crowd and so much of pushing, but this time it was total different. The next day 'Lunar Eclipse' has to be observed, so again fortunate enough that we visited on right time, else the temple would have been closed due to the eclipse. Finally we had darshan of the Sai baba, and then we spent a good amount of time in the temple premise as we had to board the bus at 12 pm.
Coming out of the temple, we had breakfast, and then started towards our pickup point 'Neeta International Hotel, Shirdi' . The bus we had to board got cancelled, and we had to wait till 1 pm for the substituted bus. Finally, the bus arrived and it was a pleasant journey watching the movie 'PK'.
Kido got some stomach issues, and had loose motions, but she also spared us from the mess as neither did she soil the diaper nor us, only asked to do 'potty' wherever the bus took the breaks. Lucky, lucky and just Lucky :) :)

We reached Mumbai (Drop at the last stop 'Borivali National Park') and reached home at 10 pm, picked up medicines for kido and dinner for us. All so tired, ate in a jiffy and went to sleep, to get ready for next day's Mumbai Darshan. !!

Sometimes instead of wandering in the labyrinths of old memories, its good to create new ones. Feels refreshing and relieveing, and on the top of that people who love and care for you makes them wonderful. Feeling blessed !!

Wednesday, April 1, 2015

Whenever there comes a gap or long gap in the blog posts then to come back again in the flow of writing I require a motivation,some newness in thoughts ,and the most important a new look for my blog. So you see everytime I stay away from here , then to again write on I need a real makeover of it. Such a true gemini I am,really get bored of the routine stuff, always in need of changes. You see nothing is permanent, only change is constant....so true the words are.
Coming back to me, as of now really happy to get a New template for my blog. Wait till the next change comes your way :)

This long weekend in the first week of april 2015 is the last holidaying week until september 2015. Sadly there are no more holidays in the office calendar of hubby dear. Since this weekend has got such a great relevance in the calendar then how could I have wasted them. This time decided to visit the holy place Shirdi. Luckily enough my parents and brother also accompanying us,so its going to be a good trip along with family time.
Starting from nizamuddin station we boarded the rajdhani to mumbai.
Kido is really enjoying the train trip. Today first time kiddo did potty in the train toilet. Yeah I know it seems so awkward to read but to make child use the toilet properly and hygenically is a herculean task to achieve. But here all the credit goes to my super smart kid. She not only informed me on time sparring me the mess it could have been (although the diapers are always at rescue),and also comfortably used the bathroom creating no drama in getting her cleaned and handwashed. It was such a releif to see her doing everything systematically ,as I was really worried how I would manage her bathroom requirement in the train. Feeling so proud of my girl and ofcourse my bathroom training too :)

After getting the herculean task done, the most fascinating and awaited part of the dinner for my girl was getting the icecream served. Yeah she just loves the vanilla icecream and if its cup then nothing else she needs. She was so much desparate and excited for it that the caterer served her a cup separately which she didn't leave till she slept. Had to convince her to eat in morning and no one will take her icecream cup. She is such a fan of ice cream that before boarding the train she already had one vanilla cup. Thankfully she has slept now and I can also sleep at peace. Tomorrow morning reaching Mumbai...a place which I love, hate but still love.