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Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Now starting the sightseeing in GOA.
After our arrival and check-in, the clock was ticking at 4 O'clock of evening. Instead of staying in the room we planned to roam around the Calangute beach as we were near to it. Being a weekend, there was huge rush on the roads.So we decided to take a walk to the beach, but you know with kid in your hands its difficult to walk, so we thought of taking auto or bus or taxi whichever is available. But let me warn you the autos and taxi-walas are such  a cheat. They as usual form groups and decide their charges, and if one of them refuses to take you, then others will also do the same.Also they support their colleague for the unreasonable charges. We had to pay 150 Rs to reach to Calangute beach which was just a walk-able distance from the hotel. I guess that's the side effect of being a tourist.
The directions for the beaches
Calangute Beach is a real pretty neat and clean beach. By the way almost all beaches in Goa are neat and clean. This particular beach has white sand and is also known as 'Queen of Beaches'. 
The beautiful Calangute Beach
On the way to the beach, there is a whole market set up selling all the items like pretty caps, hats, dresses, sunglasses, beautiful beaded accessories, variety of eatable items right from corn, bhutta-wallas, tea  to ice cream, bhel, popcorns  and much more. Oh I forgot to mention, the show of Goa 'feni' and 'kajus' are available at almost every second shop in the vicinity. Many varieties of kaju (Cashewnuts) you can find here.
Goa is more of a place of youngsters, newly wed couples, college students. But that doesn't matter families and old group people are not welcomed...Actually Goa is a kind of place where everyone enjoys as they want. We encountered many families with their young kids who were staying in our hotel itself. As it was long weekend so almost whole of Goa was crowded with people of almost every age group.
Even though the beaches are crowded, there is still place for everyone at the Goan beaches.After witnessing the people enjoying and getting drenched in the sea waves, & the sunset at the Calangute beach, we finally decided to get back to the hotel as kiddo was getting sleepy and tired.And yeah she was damn scared to get into the water,started crying and screaming.So we just wandered on the beach.
One thing to mention, after sunset there are high tides in the sea, so the Lifeguards are on a routine visit at all the beaches warning people to come out of the sea and remain at a distance from the sea water. Actually the work timings of the lifeguards gets finished after 7 pm so they warn people to stay away from sea in order to prevent any accidents.
We decided to have the dinner on the way itself and then reach hotel to take rest. As we are pure vegetarians, we were in doubt that if vegetarian options will be available for us as we wanted to taste the local food too along with the hotel food we stayed. Goa surprised us a lot. There was not even the smell of fisheries on the beaches, no fish nets , nothing visible .Along with that there are many Pure Veg restaurants to try on. At some places the food is really good. We looked  for a decent looking pure veg restaurant. Found one , had dinner, and reached our hotel.The food was good,  but yeah they charge much for it.
To roam around freely,we hired a car for our stay in Goa. We booked it from the next day on-wards. We pre-booked the car on rental basis for 4 days, and we had to pay Rs 1100 per day for the car. Luckily we had a brand new Wagon R just out of the showroom. This new car made our vacation a real treat on the GOA roads. The car owner delivered it at our hotel and after that no looking back to the taxi-walas. 

We decided to play with sea waves on the next day morning when the beach will not be crowded.And this decision of ours proved to be good. Next day morning itself we reached the sea beach to get the best natural smell of sea. We played, clicked, made kiddo play and enjoy. In the beginning she was scared and adamant not to get down even, but slowly she started to get into it. But she hated the sand mixed salty water which got into her mouth with the waves..

The innocence

The little footprints

Waves all around

Lets try 
After the dipping in the sea waves , we reached hotel with all sand filled in our clothes. The hotel bathroom converted into mini sea beach with all sand collected from our pockets and bodies :P. But that was real fun with the waves !!
Pics of the hotel:
The Reception Area
View from our room Balcony 
We made prior reservations in 'Hotel Neelams The Grand, Calangute'. About the hotel, it is good and its location is the best advantage. Other than that it has pathetic staff and room service. Sharing one of my review I posted on HolidayIQ.com

"The hotel is built in a large area and the location is perfect as its close to the Calangute Beach. There is swimming pool also for the guests. But not sufficient parking. Many times we needed to park our car in their other hotel 'neelams the glitz'. Before booking this hotel, we were already apprehensive about it after reading the reviews on the internet, and the hotel's stay proved all our fears true, rather should say horrible. 

Now comes the worst part of our stay. The hotel staff was pathetic. I can say that there was no coordination between the front desk and the upper level management. On our arrival we were assigned two rooms in there G block 'Room no 18 and 19'. We just entered the room no 18 and there was so much smell of cigarette smoke. The staff was not even aware of this. On our complaint they started spraying room fresheners in our presence. On our continuous complaint and persistence finally they changed our room, for changing the room they were quite apprehensive and tried to convince us that there is no smell, like we are feeling the smell even doesn’t exist for their nostrils.


When changed the room we were shifted to adjacent room no 17, and from their the nightmare of our stay started. The bathroom was not in the proper working condition. The controlling knob for shower/tap switching was missing. We complained to the front desk, and they said they are just coming. But after that we needed to make 2-3 calls to remind them as we needed a shower badly after such sweaty noon. Finally one person came in the evening around 7 or 8 pm, and he just switched the shower mode to tap mode without even fitting the missing control knob, mentioning that the store was closed, and he will repair it in the morning. 


The very first thing of my concern, why didn't they check their rooms before the person checks-in, also it was our job to get the fittings done, allow their staff, technicians to break our privacy. For god sake, that's a hotel and not our home where we need to take care of the amenities. So poor and careless attitude of the hotel. The second day also the shower issue was not worked out till afternoon in spite of our continuous calls. The front desk kept us redirecting to room service, and room service kept on saying person was coming. After having breakfast, we left for sightseeing instructing the lady at the reception to please make sure the fix was done. But I guess that was of no use. As around 2:30 pm when we were back to the hotel, the same issue was existing. And now the cherry on the cake was the room AC was not working. 


This all made us so furious and uncomfortable stay. On each phone call the room service would say they have sent the technician in our room, while no one ever visited us. Finally after 2-3 more calls some of their senior managers arrived with the technician and worked upon the AC showing their ignorance about our complaint. Don't know if it was the communication hiccups between the front desk, room service and the management, or everything was just so ignorable to them that they didn't even bother about their clients discomfort. After almost half an hour and in between so much words exchange, finally both issues got resolved. 


On our continuous persistence to change our room, they didn’t even let an ear. As per them if they do not succeed in repairing the AC, they will change our room. Oh wow such a kind thought they had at least. At the end we had to adjust with their maintenance, compromising with our privacy and rest time to their maintenance work. Totally this behaviour was so unprofessional and unacceptable on the hotel management part. Again, a new story on the next morning was waiting for us. One of the lampshades stopped working, but this time we ignored it, as we were tired of getting the issues resolved. At another instance the lift of this so called G block was under maintenance, and we had to take another block's lift to go downstairs. 


If by any chance you get to book this hotel, please make sure all things are working before you check-in. We had such a terrible experience with this particular room no 17 of G block. Also about the Wi-Fi part, they do have free access to it, but that is not accessible in the rooms, you have to remain in the lobby downstairs at the reception to get the range. Now, don't they know who was going to sit their like if its a cafe for internet. Everyone likes to access the internet in their own comfort zone, rather than sit publicly holding the devices or they are smart enough to limit their Wi-Fi usage. 


In between all this mess up, the only good part was the breakfast, and the cab pickup and drop. They had many varieties and delicious breakfast. The food they offer for dinner was also good, but the room service was so pathetic, they even forget their etiquette’s and on our request to serve soon, they didn't forget to mention ' jab banega tabhi to ayega'...this is how they treat their guests...So pathetic."


So I would suggest that do make sure the hotel arrangement do not spoil your vacation mood.Ok now enough of it, let me stop being the agony aunt and come back to the vacation in GOA  in the next post.

By d way the kiddo was so cranky when she saw her teddy bear in this situation (see the pic below) :D

Again a late running post making its way to the blog.
So during the Dussehra vacations, we went on a vacation to GOA..

Goa was one of my dream vacation place right from the day I started working in Mumbai, and then in Pune. Inspite of being so close to Goa (close as compared from delhi), this dream somehow couldn't take its wings...may be you can say never got a company to get it done...Sighhh. The bachelor days in Goa would have been quite happening and full of adrenaline rush as the spirits were really on the highest peak few years back. Those are the years where you feel completely free, and can really feel wings on you to fly and catch whatever you think of. You are financially independent, no responsibilities and carefree. Anyways let it be , whatever is gone in the past..let it rest in peace :)

So finally coming to our vacation, the dussehra week happened to be a very long weekend due to many holidays (Gandhi Jayanti, Dussehra, Id) all falling in the same week. So we had a lavish 4 days time in Goa. But this long weekend made the flight ticket rates, hotel rates soaring so high. Since we had already made up our minds for it, so we booked the tickets via mumbai to Goa. 

We packed our bags along with kiddos teddy bear...yeah he has to come with us as she is not ready to leave the tedyy. On the D day we reached the Indira Gandhi International Airport, Delhi. Let me mention that, this is the first flight journey of my kiddo and officially my too first one :D 
Kiddo was super excited to roam in the airport premises, checkin queues. She was so happy to walk around see all the new things and grasping it all. She loved to watch the aeroplanes visible through the glass panes. It was so difficult for us to make her get seated on the chairs in the waiting zone. everytime she would pick one of us to accompany her and roam with her.
Posting the pics of her activities at the airport.
Kiddo with her Jiya !!

She loved these poles

Busy with teddy and  planes through the glass

This is so much fun 
Finally we boarded our flight from Delhi to Mumbai. We made a night stay at Mumbai , and then next day headed to Mumbai airport for boarding our flight to GOA.
During the whole journey kiddo was super active..Being 2 yrs age she had her very own seat with us. She made full use of it , she sat, ate laddoos, read the magazine, and slept for some minutes..proving us wrong who thought she might make this journey a little difficult.No crying, no fussiness,all smiles and chatters...thts wht she was...my lovely kid.And the most she was excited to push the trolley herself,and also to sit on the baggages on the trolley. Posting pics of her activities during the flight journey.
After reaching GOA, the Dabolim Airport we had the cab waiting for us from the hotel. We stayed at the hotel 'Neelam's the grand' at Calangate . The feedback for the hotel coming in my next post.


Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Just now happened to encounter a Cesarean baby birth video circulating on Facebook. Clicked on the link, and can't believe that i just paused it even before it could complete the buffering. Seriously, I was not able to convince myself that I can watch this one, though I too have given a cesarean birth to my baby. On one thought there is curiosity to see how my baby came into this world, and on the other note the sight of blood is really making me sick. But the motherly instinct overpowered my fear, and i decide to watch this video, to know what we both have went through to survive safely in this world !!

Sharing the link of the video here. Hope it is accessible till the video isn't removed...
Do watch this one..I had goosebumps watching it.
https://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=648061361881207
After watching this video, all I can say is "Salute to all the beautiful and courageous mothers". We the mothers take rebirth with our kids birth. May be this is the reason why the kids are always attached to their mothers like their pre-birth umbilical cord, a special bond which intertwined both of them.